An nice update from my side: I received a XT the evening before I went on holiday, forgot about it, and stumbled about it looking for something else. It contains the same board, has 1 MB on board and most important: the BIOS says so! I cannot remember the other two boards doing that. Now it is a matter of setting the dip switches the same and using the same BIOS.
Having 1 MB means I can use the RAM-drive software I must have laying around somewhere. But If anybody does know what software came with this board and can point me to it, please!