Chuck, thanks. That sounds like a 'possible', with that restriction.
If I included IO port control of the CF card power, maybe this could work (note not proposing holding up the project as it stands, just thinking of a future version) via unmount and mount utilities? I'm thinking along the lines of adding a red/green status LED on the bracket to indicates safe to remove (i.e. card power status), no flash chip needed either as it sounds like it would need to be driver-driven anyway.