I think I remember reading that Wikipedia blurb at some point and finding it pretty confusing. Sometimes Wiki works, sometimes it doesn't... The OverDrive options are actually pretty straightforward, and there's an Intel datasheet that explains everything very clearly. (Available at datasheets.chipdb.org/Intel/x86/486/applnots/29043606.pdf, among other places.)
There were two types of i486 upgrade OverDrive processors: the DX2's, which doubled the clock speed of the processor core, cache, etc., relative to the external bus, and the DX4's, which tripled it. Both types were packaged as either 168-lead PGAs or 169-lead PGAs. The 168-pin OverDrive processors were for single-socket systems and actually replaced the existing 486 (usually DX) processor. The 169-pin package was for systems with two sockets: The OverDrive processor was installed in the second socket, and the original processor remained in place. The extra pin was actually a key to prevent users from inserting the OverDrive chip the wrong way. (>.<)
So in your case, since you have the second socket, you would want the 169-pin package. (In Intel's product codes for the OverDrive processors, 169-pin PGAs are denoted "ODP" and 168-pin packages are labeled "ODPR." I've always figured the "R" must mean "replacement," since the 168-pin OD's take the place of the existing processor.) With a 486SX at 25MHz, in principle your options are to install either a DX2ODP50 (DX2 => clock-doubled, ODP => 169 pins, 50 => 50MHz internal processor clock speed) or a DX4ODP75 (clock-tripled to 75MHz). I looked at Intel's OverDrive support website to try to verify your system's compatibility, but as luck would have it, although there's a document called "System Compatibility List, A-O," there's no corresponding document for the remainder of the alphabet! Since you have a second socket, it seems reasonable to assume that your system will recognize the OverDrive processor, but... In any event, if you know what type of motherboard you have, you should be able to verify its compatibility pretty easily.